1) Lost my virginity. 2) Left Spelman. 3) Fell in love with him. 4) Cheated. 5) Quit My Job 6) Ignore my gut.
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#1 is interesting. I'm 23 years old, never had sex, and there are times I wish I HAD lost my virginity just so I wouldn't stick out like a sore thumb all the time. I suppose making either decision comes with "what if" questions. Go figure.
That's something you should be commended for. Virginity is special. You stick out for a good reason.
Don't get me wrong, I love sex. (Even though I rarely get it now- ha!) I just wish that my first time would have been when I was 100% ready and with someone special.
Honestly, I lost my virginity because I was bored, tired of being a virgin and he was my "boyfriend" so I figured "Why Not". It was horrible. Didn't feel a thing. Told me that it was something wrong with my vagina because I didn't feel him. Well needless to say this caused quite a bit of emotional damage & I spent the next couple of years searching for "the sex that I hear my friends talk about".
So yea, there is a lot of what ifs along with the whole virginity thing. To keep, or not to keep: that is the question.
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#1 is interesting. I'm 23 years old, never had sex, and there are times I wish I HAD lost my virginity just so I wouldn't stick out like a sore thumb all the time. I suppose making either decision comes with "what if" questions. Go figure.
That's something you should be commended for. Virginity is special. You stick out for a good reason.
Don't get me wrong, I love sex. (Even though I rarely get it now- ha!) I just wish that my first time would have been when I was 100% ready and with someone special.
Honestly, I lost my virginity because I was bored, tired of being a virgin and he was my "boyfriend" so I figured "Why Not". It was horrible. Didn't feel a thing. Told me that it was something wrong with my vagina because I didn't feel him. Well needless to say this caused quite a bit of emotional damage & I spent the next couple of years searching for "the sex that I hear my friends talk about".
So yea, there is a lot of what ifs along with the whole virginity thing. To keep, or not to keep: that is the question.
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