Saturday, March 6, 2010

Pussy Vs Dicks

How many women have actually LOOKED at their vaginas? Do you know how you look "down there"? Do you know yourself enough to reach a climax ALONE? Do you know the depth of your vagina?

Many of you will answer NO to at least one of those questions.

Why can't we as a women be comfortable enough to know our own bodies? Why is it such a taboo subject that most women don't even like to say the word vagina let alone talk about it?

I can respect women like Eve Ensler (creator of the Vagina Monologues). If you haven't read her books, I think you should. :)

Seriously though, there is nothing wrong with masturbation. Why is that most women won't even admit to watching porn, let alone pleasuring themselves? No lie, I love porn. I love mastie (my code word for masturbation on twitter--- keep up, list of my quips & sayings coming soon...). I know my body and I know what she likes. I know what it takes to please me. I know what arouses me & what does NOTHING for me.

We as women are bred to be private, often calling our girls our private box/privacy/secret chest etc. Everyone knows what a penis looks like, very few can draw a vagina. Why do I discuss this?

There's always been this double standard in society where men are able to express themselves sexually, yet woman can't without being called whores, sluts, skanks, easy... Everything negative. Its okay if a guy has casual sex with a woman but if we have casual sex with a man? Oh no.. we gave it up too easily. We're going to become attached. Whatever.

Women think about sex just about as much as, if not MORE than men. Most just hate to admit it. Its possible to have a sexual connection with someone and not want to be involved with them at all.

Fuck double standards. If I want to have sex with you, I can & I probably will. If I want a relationship with you, I pursue you accordingly.

Men can become attached after sex as well. But fuck men, I'm talking about my women..


any thoughts, comments?? I'd love to hear what you guys think.

3 comments:

GinaMarie314 said...

I love this post! I totally agree that the double standard has got to die! I recently gave up being celibate after a year of not having sex because I realize that I was doing it for the wrong reasons! I was trying to conform to society's belief on what a "lady" is suppose to be but in reality I love sex! I love to masturbate daily, I love oral, I'ma proud supporter of the porn industry! lol...& no I am not a slut! I think that more women need to be sexually free. It doesnt mean going around having loose sex but women should be able to do what they please without the judgement and stigma.


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Bee Michelle said...

You are like my morality twin right now! You should join the pro-mastie club! lol.

I LOVE oral! I watch porn daily.

we can be bffs. :)

GinaMarie314 said...

lol I love to join! lol...we can def be bffs...nicce to know someone out there shares my views!


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