Friday, September 24, 2010

Day Five

Day Five: Six things you wish you’d never done.



1) Lost my virginity.
2) Left Spelman.
3) Fell in love with him.
4) Cheated.
5) Quit My Job
6) Ignore my gut. 

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

#1 is interesting. I'm 23 years old, never had sex, and there are times I wish I HAD lost my virginity just so I wouldn't stick out like a sore thumb all the time. I suppose making either decision comes with "what if" questions. Go figure.

Vividly Bland said...

That's something you should be commended for. Virginity is special. You stick out for a good reason.

Don't get me wrong, I love sex. (Even though I rarely get it now- ha!) I just wish that my first time would have been when I was 100% ready and with someone special.

Honestly, I lost my virginity because I was bored, tired of being a virgin and he was my "boyfriend" so I figured "Why Not". It was horrible. Didn't feel a thing. Told me that it was something wrong with my vagina because I didn't feel him. Well needless to say this caused quite a bit of emotional damage & I spent the next couple of years searching for "the sex that I hear my friends talk about".

So yea, there is a lot of what ifs along with the whole virginity thing. To keep, or not to keep: that is the question.